Signs that you're with the right person

"There is no such thing as a 'perfect' relationship. Relationships are just that: relations with you and another person, and that take work. If it were solely about love and caring, it wouldn’t be called a relationship."(Life coach and author Jaya Myra).  Just because things aren't 100 percent happy then you will feel like you’re with the wrong person and give up on your relationship. Mind you there is no perfect human. Ideal situations like these simply don't exist.
When things get rocky, life become tough and before long you and your lover may find yourselves struggling. No one wants to be in a difficult relationship, but sometimes it doesn't work out that way.  But that doesn’t mean you aren’t with the right person. As long as there is mutual respect, and a few other important traits, it's likely you've still bounce to a healthy and normal life.
You two will likely going to be alright if your relationship has few difficulties — possibly due to money issues, health problems, or a misunderstanding or both. It just may require a dose of understanding from both sides, as well as some extra work to make things, well, work. And, more often than not, that's totally worth it.
13 Signs you’re with the right person

1. You Know How To Help Each De-Stress
If you both retain the ability to laugh about it your tough relationship, you'll likely be OK. Do you watch movies to de-stress? Or make each other laugh? "These shared experiences help couples connect in essential ways," says relationship therapist Julienne B. Derichs, LCPC. "It helps you learn how not to take things too personally, which is so helpful in any long-term relationship."

2. You're OK With Spending Time Apart
 The healthiest of partnerships consist of two people who are cool with spending time apart. So count yourself among the lucky if you know how to give each other space. "That gives you time to do your things," spiritual counselor Davida Rappaport tells Bustle, which is a huge key to success.

You Trust Them And Feel Secure In The Relationship
It's OK if you two don't see eye-to-eye on everything, as long as there is a sturdy foundation of trust. "If you can trust your partner it's a good sign they are right for you," NYC-based therapist Kimberly Hershenson, LMSW tells Bustle. If this doesn't ring true, however, it may be time to rethink things.  

The moment your partner doesn't want to put in the work is the moment you'll know they've got to go. But, if they are willling to work things out, think twice. As Upchurch says, "The desire to continue fighting is huge! That means you both still feel and see a future together, even if the vision is cloudy. There is something there that is worth holding to."

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