Perfect Ways to Ask a Girl for a Date with Pictures

The most important thing to do when asking a girl out for the first time is to formulate your approach based on how well you know her. The approach you take if she is a total stranger for instance a girl you met at a shopping mall, a girl you sat with on a bus or a girl walking down the road will different compared to a girl you are family with (e.g. a colleague in your office or your neighbour you’ve been wanting to ask out for a while). In which ever scenario, men need to understand that women don’t like to be looked upon as sex objects.  
Start up a discussion if she a stranger

It is very important that you do not comment on how beautiful she looks because naturally women are suspicious of any strange men who approach them. Assuming you met in a bus, being up a discussion on any topic to gauge her interest. Along the line of your discussion you can ask her gender-neutral question like if she can give you a direction of a place. For example, “I’m new in town and a little bit lost, do you know how I can get a good hotel if I alight from this bus?” if lucky is on your side, she will answer your question with an additional questions and answers from which you can get information about her. However, if she doesn’t reply to your questions in a detailed way, then she is not interested in you or she is married or seriously engaged, just thank her for her audience and back off. Don’t make the mistake of asking her “has anybody told that you’re beautiful?” or “can I take you out?” if you ask such question it will send signal to the woman that you’re interested in sex.

Tell her the way you feel about her if she’s a girl you personally known 

In a traditional African society it’s the guy that makes the first move (toast) not the other way round. As a woman she needs to protect her ego. The possibility of her being attracted to you is there but she needs you to make the first move.  Even if she is not currently attracted to you, you can change that by your dressing, your manner of approach to her, frequent visit and you topic of discussion when you are together. She respects and trusts you as a person if you two are already friends which make it very easier for you.

Ask her if she can join you for a dinner in a casual place. If she accepts, open the door of the car for her, allow her to enter the eatery first and show to a seat, and be as gently manly as you can be. Be genuine and tell her how much you had always wished to be with her and you really enjoying her friendship and would like to take it another level. Remember women love communication. Tell her how wonderful and intelligent she is and you are so much attracted to her. At this point read her facial expression and know if she is interested in what you are saying. If her mood is positive, ask her if she has ever thought about taking your friendship to another level. “Women like what they hear and men like what they see, that’s why men lie a lot and women wear too much make up”. She may not say yes at that moment but if she smiles, thank your stars; she is interested and thank her as well. Hold her hand and either give her a peck on the cheek or a kiss on the forehead. If she didn’t push you away, then she is yours. Even if says no to your request, just relax, the most important thing is that you have achieved your aim of informing her about your intention towards her

Organize a group mini party to draw her attention if she is a co-worker

Another approach of asking her to date you is to first hangout in a group of other colleague or friends so that she can learn more about you and appreciate you the more. If she is a neighbor, time her when she is in a happy mood ask her “Hello! I think it will be a great idea to organize a pool side party so that we can get to know people in our neighborhood, you can invite any other neighbor that you know, what do you think?”Assuming she is a colleague, perhaps you could say to her, “my friends and I will be having a get together for a happy moment after work, do you mind joining use?”

Adopt the friendly, non-threatening and “unisex” method in driving down your point of making your intention known to her. If you fail in your first trial, don’t feel bad and insult her, relax and try your luck next time.

Dig deep and apply more effort in winning her love if she is online

According to Pew Research, online dating has lost much of the stigma it used to have. Almost half the American public knows someone who has tried online dating or met a partner online and one-in-five adults between 24 and 34 have tried dating online. Mary people actually do find each other online and end up having long-term relationship. So you're not alone!
Women have the understanding that there are many disturbing men going crazy things online. So imply some techniques when trying to get a girl online. Send your first email see what her reaction would be. Remember your first email should be brief and specifically about something on her profile, not her look but something like her discipline or location. If she replies, then send detailed information about yourself asking her some questions about who she is.
Email her your number after four or five emails from both of you and ask her to call or send you her number. If you’re calling, be sure to ask her the best time to chat on the phone sometime later in the day or during the weekend (because she might be the busy type). If your chatting was great, suggest an outing somewhere casual for a lunch or dinner as the case may be. She is likely to accept your offer.
 Avoid these                                                       
Don’t invite her to your house for your first date.
Don’t tell her about her beauty at first date.
Don’t persist if she says she belongs to another man.
Don’t insult her if she is not interested, give her some time.
Guys, the subject matter of this write-up is that you’ve got to put yourself out there. You can’t over think things. Be envision and confident in yourself succeeding. But pick yourself up and dust yourself off when it doesn’t work out. Nothing good comes easy. When you try and fail, try again, and sooner or later you’ll be successful. And once you realize that none of this is big deal, you won’t feel the fear anymore. You’ll just be having the time of your life.

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